Being a single mom is tough. You juggle countless responsibilities, and finding a supportive community can be a lifeline. But what happens when that very community seems to overlook or exclude single moms? It's a frustrating reality: the lack of Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) can be deeply felt within faith communities.
Sometimes, the world throws challenges our way disguised as "help." Government assistance programs like child support and WIC can feel limiting, perpetuating stereotypes about single moms. However, the bigger issue might be closer to home – in our houses of worship.
The Bible offers a powerful example of how to deal with inequality within a community. In Acts 6:1-7, the early church faced a similar situation. Hellenistic Jews felt their widows were being neglected in food distribution. The apostles didn't ignore the problem. Instead, they addressed it head-on, promoting unity and equity. They appointed seven men, ensuring fair distribution and demonstrating the importance of inclusion.
Taking Action: 7 Strategies for Single Moms
So, what can you do as a single mom navigating a faith community that lacks DEI? Here are 7 strategies to empower yourself and create positive change:
Find Your Voice: Don't be afraid to speak up about inequalities and injustices you encounter. Just like the Hellenistic Jews, voice your concerns. Filing a formal complaint might be necessary.
Seek Solutions for All: When addressing issues, focus on solutions that benefit everyone. Channel the apostles' spirit and aim for harmony and fairness for all parties involved.
Have Those Tough Conversations: Open and honest dialogue, even when difficult, can be transformative. Just as open communication led to a solution in the early church, it can pave the way for understanding and collaboration within your community.
Strength in Numbers: Unity is key. Connect with other single moms who share your vision for a more inclusive faith community. Together, you can support each other and amplify your voices.
Persistence is Key: Don't get discouraged by setbacks. The apostles didn't abandon their mission when they faced challenges. Be persistent in your efforts, but remain open to adapting your approach for maximum impact.
Develop a Plan and Lead: Craft a detailed plan that outlines how to address DEI issues within your community. Present your plan with confidence, inspired by the boldness of the apostles who appointed leaders to ensure fair treatment.
Seek Guidance and Pray: Throughout this process, turn to prayer. Dedicate your efforts to God, seeking His wisdom and guidance. With faith and perseverance, your work can bring about positive change.
Remember, just as the early church did, we are called to promote justice, equity, and inclusion within our communities. Let's be agents of positive change, empowered by our faith and driven by love.
Empowered by "What's Your I Can?"
These strategies are just a starting point. The "What's Your I Can?" framework can help you navigate these challenges and develop your "I Can" voice. This framework empowers you to identify your goals, overcome obstacles, and achieve success.
Visit our website or social media pages to learn more about the "What's Your I Can?" framework and discover how it can help you on your journey!
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To Empowering the Elite,
Kristy Angelee
About Kristy Angelee
Kristy Angelee, acclaimed as 'The Elite Single Mom,' is a prominent national figure with diverse roles as a Single Moms Speaker, Businesswoman, Writer, and Media Personality. Through her faith-based and holistic approach, Kristy empowers single moms of color to reach elite status, offering practical tools across career, personal development, self-care, and financial management. Guided by her wisdom, Kristy nurtures qualities of elegance, style, and poise, assisting remarkable women in overcoming obstacles and realizing their aspirations. Whether through coaching sessions, workshops, or motivational speeches, Kristy tailors solutions for a brighter future. Her ultimate goal is to inspire profound self-assuredness, creating a community of role models for future generations. Connect with Kristy on social media @iamkristyangelee.
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